The Yin and Yang symbol is very popular, yet do you know the true meaning of this symbol? 
The Yin-Yang symbol comes from Chinese Philosophy and is a symbol of balance, with both pieces being unique yet connected and complimentary.
But how does this symbol connect to your dating life?
You see, everything has a yin and yang aspect to it. (as pictured above)
For instance, even inhaling is considered yin and exhaling yang!
However, when it comes to dating you want to make sure you are using both of these energies to manifest a balanced relationship.
So are you a yin, yang, or balanced dater?
DISCLAIMER: I wanted to note that yin and yang is dualistic in nature, yet when it comes to the nature of the yin and yang it can also be considered a spectrum, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. You may in fact show qualities of both to a certain degree so keep this in mind as you read this post!
Yin Dater-A Yin dater is very shy and prefers for others to make the first move. A yin dater also spends much time fantasizing about potential romance so much so that they may even fall for an internal fantasy, instead of the actual person!
If you are a yin dater then you have a skill for working on your own baggage, and going through deep levels of reflection after a date to get a better picture of what you want in a relationship.
However, a yin dater must take more action! Don’t always wait for the other person to make the first move, this is also because if you are a yin dater than you may be a tad bit more emotional. Thus, in relationships you would also need to work on expressing your emotions and not bottling them up; only to have your emotions explode or turn into festering resentment.
Yin is a powerful energy for healing, yet yang is just as important so lets see if you are a yang dater.
Yang Dater-Having an abundance of yang energy while dating can make for a very exciting romantic life! If you are a yang dater then you are the person who makes the first move, chooses the dates and even parks the car 😉
In other words, yang energy is all about action, which balances out the yin energy. However, there is a weakness in having too much yang energy; that is, sometimes yang daters can be very cocky, overbearing and risk using dating and relationships as a way to escape their inner turmoil.
Too much yang energy can cause you to search for dating and love as a form of escapism!
Yang is a wonderful energy to cultivate, but too much can hurt you, unfortunately. Yang daters can benefit from meditation, deep reflection and also keeping a journal to get those emotions down on paper.
Yet, is there a way to get the best of both worlds? Of course there is!
Balanced Dater-Yin and yang are not energies in competition with one another, but two forces meant to work harmoniously together. You may, like most, have several qualities that are yin and yang in nature yet being a balanced dater is idea.
A balance dater knows when to take action, but also when to look within and question your motives in pursuing someone.
A balanced dater will take the time to work on personal baggage and self love and work from this “complete” space to manifest a loving relationship.
A balanced dater is a conscious dater who takes into consideration the subsequent effect of their actions on others, and also themselves (mindfulness).
Cultivating the yin and yang balance however is much easier than most would tell you and it is even something I teach in my Relationship Coaching practice; as well as conscious dating.
So which type of dater are you currently? Which energy do you need more of to balance yourself, yin or yang? Think about it.
In the meantime, have a wonderful day!
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